Link To The Floating World Class Schedule (full)

HERE (LINK) is the full class list available to Rockbottom and myself this weekend at The Floating World. I just wanted to give people an idea of what to expect at a BDSM event for the itinerary. The Floating World is expected to be the event on the East Coast for BDSM education.

Untitled(s) More of My Photography

If It's Bondage Gear You Want On Sale...

Subshop.com is having a 40% off sale on all of the bondage gear that they carry right now. BUT, heed this word of caution: Most of the equipment sub shop carries is designed for the female submissive bottom. There are pieces that are gender neutral and a few designed for men specifically, but please bare the overall discrimination in mind. One of the best sections in the store is the metal male cock and ball restraint selection, which can be found Here (LINK). There are some killer deals to be found on this site right now, so do yourself a favor and browse it Here (LINK).

Babeland Sale Starting Today

Babeland is having a great sale this month. By entering coupon code "SUMMER20" you can save 20% off of your entire purchase. Plus, donating $5 to the food drive and entering the coupon code "DONATE" will get you a total of 25% off of your entire purchase, and that means that everything is on sale. The sale is only happening this weekend (July 17th-19th), and I have a few items on my mental wishlist that would endear a few if not many memorable moments should anyone care to ask what they are. So, by clicking the banner above, you will be whisked away to Babeland's food drive sale and bestowed upon the wide array of high quality dildos, male toys, strap on harnesses, vibrators, and myriad of other teasers and pleasers the site offers for grabs. Good Luck.

Red White Blue Bind

"Binding Farse" Photo taken by me


"Made of Men" Photo taken by me

Initial Fun Time; Camp Leather Retreat

I've got to get over camp. I've got to get over camp. Ever wonder how to make better friends? It's about getting to know people that you actually like. You know, people that you don't need to live next to, or see every week, or meddle in the lives of, or vice versa. I call these people friends. They are essential to learning about community and what that really defines. I am looking forward to seeing my friends later this month again.

Strong Pussy is an Oxymoron, Boy am I Having a Hell of a Time

Well, like, holy shit. I have discovered the secret to having a happy sex life- make sure that your dick can get hard before you try to do it with me. That seems logical, right? I consider myself a fair and open minded person. I like math, reading nerdy books, and women's rights. I enjoy biking, swimming, eating out, and photography. I am pretty well adjusted, considering the seemingly insurmountable odds that I've overcome in my life. However, recently, I've admitted that I attract some of the most heinous guys on earth. Yes, even "submissive" ones. You know I hate it when people think that one word defines them, especially "submissive". It's such a funny contest that men play out in the world all around us everyday, in general. When it comes to involving me in a man's life, I would prefer that the dude: not hate women, and not be abusive to me because I understand what it's like to be one. It would also be practical for him not to think that he can read my mind when he fails to ask me that which is essential to gaining the truth of my opinions. In other words, putting words in my fucking mouth is not healthy for anyone, so I don't advise it. This account of deductions has been so repeated, and I am so sanely through with it and the set of morons that live like they have all issues fixed in their minds, if and only if the rest of the world would just tighten up and cooperate with them... End of rant.

Whores Not Wars

I thought this street art image by iamthequarry on Flickr totally ruled:


AND, it seems the original designer was selling t-shirts on Etsy with the screen print in many different colors.

Who Cares M'bout Y'all

I really waited too long for this. I need to slow the fuck down and blog a little more I suppose. I've experienced so much since my last entry that by now it's almost pointless to try and cover everything. I hope that at least some are keeping up with me on my Twitter because I'm usually right there with it. With that said, maybe my focus is shifting to more of a photo blog, ya think? I must hate writing or something. The D.C. scene was fucking great last month. I love love love TNG parties. I missed the last Rapture party on accident due to a social holdup and then maybe the locality of the party vs the hotel I was at with Rockbottom. Speaking of whom, I will be doing an extended scene with over the next two days. No details. This one is private before it happens, public after the details are accomplished.

Classic insomnia driven Niteflirters have driven me almost to the brink of insanity a few times with their three and four a.m. calls which nearly always lead to really long conversations about philosophy or life problems. I'm into it except for, Christ's sake, the guy that jerks off in front of his mom, was hitting my limit- and hard at that. I don't think this guy was for real. I don't want to believe what he said. I simply cannot and will not take someone seriously who tells me that their mother holds their chastity key and that he and his father masturbate in front of her when she lets them out. No. No. No.

I like being Mommy, but not that much.

Doomentia; Slave to Your Own Brain

"RockBlog" Photo Taken By Me, Spanking Done By Me, Bruises Left By Me

Washington D.C. has been good to me lately, and this month I'll be getting a double dose of D.C. plus Baltimore, Philly, and Atlanta for parties, scenes, music, and photography. I'm excited to say the least about my feelings, but since no one really wants me to talk less than I should, I will elaborate on recent past adventures before moving on to the next set.

I have been suggesting recently that I have suffered from a condition known as "Top drop" or "Dom drop". It is a sadness or a depression resulting from acting out a scene, and occurs after the scene is finished and the brain's chemicals re-regulate back to normal functions and occurrences. This adjustment is not always pleasant or easily accomplished, and bottoms who experience the lateral phenomenon of "sub drop" know that normalizing oneself can be painful. I get quite a bit of enjoyment from scening, and letting someone walk out the door after the play time we share gets me down in the dumps. I've found that being around another bottom or a Mistress helps me readjust, but can not make me feel instantaneously balanced. Music is one way I've been experimenting with emotional responses, and listening to music with others is probably my best advice for someone experiencing feelings of "dropping" after a scene. In my opinion, getting over a scene as a lifestyle player is just as important as performing the scenes by themselves. As plans are made to play, plans should be made for recovery. It is a brain cycle that is very intense.

Not too long ago, I had the opportunity to rev up my brain's juices with Rockbottom, Sublime the notorious foot slave, a Violet Wand first timer I'll refer to as J, and oddly enough, two male Tops who experimented with their "other" side on my behalf. The irony of bottoming as a Top is that typically, the infrequent experience lends itself to a much lighter scene than a more relevant experienced sub/bottom enjoys. Needless to say, male Tops are wimpy compared to hardened male sub/bottoms. Would I myself be a wimpy bottom? Probably, but don't let me catch you discussing it. Trying to hide from me will not work either, as my nipples might start tingling to alert me of your present thoughts.